"The One": Signs That The Person You're Dating Is Right For You

Relationships are hard work. After the initial period of love, often referred to as the "honeymoon period," reality sets in and you begin to learn more about the man and whether he's right for you.

Many of us grow up believing that somewhere out there is someone who is supposed to be our other half, our soul mate, the perfect complement to who we are. In short, that somewhere out there is "the one".
But are there any signs by which we can tell whether we have found our other half? There are nine signs that we have found the "one", based on all the specific conditions that a healthy relationship needs to meet in order to develop and flourish. 
 

recognizing the signs can be difficult, especially if you've never been in a long-term relationship. 

You don't want to change anything else.

Your partner sees you at your worst and loves you in spite of it. You are happy together. You may have little habits and quirks that make you not completely in love, but you would never change anything about each other, and you can't imagine being attracted to anyone else. Happiness is simply being together. Everyday life becomes extraordinary, and when you are together, you can do whatever you want.
 

When you are together, you want to be the best you can be.

You both realize that you are not perfect and you are willing to find ways to improve. In this case, both people in the relationship are committed to trying to make the other better. This commitment to the relationship and to each other is the basis for the harmonious growth of both individuals. This is important because it reduces the likelihood that the interests, values, and ideas of the two people will diverge.
 

The chosen one will be the one you trust.

Trust is very important in a relationship and it never changes. In fact, it becomes even more important the longer you're together, when life tests the strength of your ship (or your marriage). If you spot red flags early on that make you doubt your partner's sincerity, or if you have reason to doubt their loyalty, it will be very difficult to trust them in the long run.
 

The chosen one is the one who makes your body happy.

I don't mean that there has to be total sexual compatibility (that can be worked out), but there has to be mutual sexual attraction and a sense of "body comfort". This may mean that you easily reach orgasm with him or that you feel safe and calm, curled up in his arms. What your body is looking for, you have found in him.
 

Support your dreams.

Finding the one person who will cheer you on the most is a big plus. You want your life partner to support you, respect you, and cheer you on in all your dreams, even if it means making sacrifices.
 

Your friends and family rejoice with you.

Your partner makes an effort to get to know your friends and family and is kind and caring to them. Ideally, your friends and family see the same qualities in your partner as you do and enjoy it with you.
 

Mutual trust and understanding

Trust your partner completely and never fear that he/she will do something that can hurt you. You are so interactive that you never have problems expressing your feelings to each other. You know that your partner understands you when you say it and even when you don't say it.
 

The debate will, of course, continue.

When you're with your soulmate, you feel like you've known them forever. From the first date, conversations with them are no longer awkward. You simply get along and can talk about anything and everything.
 

It's a compromise.

Alice says that if you don't agree on something, it's important to find a partner who is willing to find common ground. This is how you learn the importance of flexibility and joint decision-making.
 

Good conflict resolution.

All relationships have conflict, and all couples argue. It is natural and part of the coping process as we try to adapt as individuals. It is not the disagreement that is important, but how we resolve and manage the conflict. 
Do you try to fight fairly? Do you listen to each other's arguments, admit mistakes, apologize sincerely, forgive easily, and work together to find the best possible solution? If you approach problems in a respectful and healthy way, you can strengthen your relationship.